Anal Toys for Beginners and How to Use Them

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23 August 2022

Anal Toys For Beginners And How To Use Them

So, you’re thinking about trying anal stimulation? That’s great! There is a lot of fun and pleasure to be had with anal toys for beginners. But, before you get started, there are a few things you need to know. In this post, we’ll discuss what anal toys for beginners are available, and how to use them safely and pleasurably. 

Let’s get started!


What Are Anal Toys? Why Would Someone Want to Use Them?

Anal Adv Basic Plug Kit
Fig. 1. Anal Adv Basic Plug Kit

Did you know that anything that goes up your butt, especially if they’re not designed for that purpose, can potentially cause a medical emergency? This is why anal toys were created – to help you safely achieve pleasure while staying safe and in control. Anal toys, complemented by high-quality lubricants, are designed to help avoid discomfort and even injury while giving pleasure during playtime with others or alone! 

The answer is obvious, but the question still needs to be raised. So, why would someone want to use anal toys? 

Easy! Whether you’re a biological male or a female, butt plugs can make your sex life more pleasurable. They’re easy to use and provide an exhilarating experience that you might have never felt before!

For biological males, immense pleasure can be experienced by stimulating their prostate through the anus. For biological females, the anal nerve endings can be stimulated through anal toys. Plus, anal plugs can simultaneously stimulate the internal structures of the clitoris, leading to a toe-curling orgasmic experience!

Anal toys can do so much more than just warm you up for anal penetration! You could use them during penetrative sex, in conjunction with clitoral stimulation, or on their own. The possibilities are endless when it comes to which anal toys are right for you and your partner.


What You Need to Know About Anal Toys

Anal toys come in different sizes, shapes, and lengths
Fig. 2. Anal toys come in different sizes, shapes, and lengths


Another thing to take note of for anal toys for beginners is their sizes. Sizes usually refer to the thickness and not the length of the toy.

  • Small

Anal toys under this category are usually 1-1.2 inches in diameter and are designed for beginners. This is the right size for you if you’re a little bit unsure but still curious, to plunge into anal play. It’s also the recommended size if you have a small stature.

  • Medium

The 1.25-1.5 inch diameter mark is where things start getting interesting in the world of anal sex toys! Most of the best anal sex toys you’ll find are within this range. Once you’ve reached this point, it’s safe to assume that you’re not playing around anymore and can handle the fullness of anal play. 

  • Large

Huge toys are, indeed, a thing. But with sizes ranging from 1.6-2.0 inches, expect that not many have dared to tread this far. Anything past the 1.75in size usually falls under fetish or kink territory dedicated to delving deeper into exploration!


The perfect prostate toy is about 2-3 inches deep inside the anal cavity. So, any anal sex toy around this length will work for hitting your spots! Steer clear from products longer than 4.5in as they may penetrate too far into delicate areas. The best anal toys for beginners are those below the 4-inch mark.


Suction Cup or Stopper

Butt Plugs for Beginners Easy to Insert Tapered Anal Kits
Fig. 3. Butt Plugs for Beginners Easy to Insert Tapered Anal Kits

We highly recommend only using anal toys such as dildos and butt plugs with suction cups (with a strong suction cup base) or stoppers (with flare bases at the end) which allows the anal toys to only go at a certain extent to avoid the risk of having it getting sucked into the anus.


How to Use Anal Toys Safely and Pleasurably

So you want to try out some anal action but don’t know where or how? We’ve got your back! Follow these easy tips for using toys in the butt.

  • Start with a training kit

An anal starter kit is the best way to start exploring your body and what you’re capable of. It usually consists of three toys that increase in size gradually so it’s easy for you to adjust, especially since you haven’t done it before. 

  • Lube and try again

Lube up your toy before inserting it until you feel like there is some resistance. This ‘resistance’ will be the first sphincter muscle that must contract and expand to let you in deeper into the cavity. 

After hitting the resistance, remove the toy for relubrication. Now it’s time for some fun! Lubricate the outside of the anus again before pushing in 6-8 more times, going in a little deeper every time. The goal is to relax all the 3 sphincters and be able to fully insert the toy without discomfort. 

  • Get used to it first

Once the toy is fully inserted, don’t completely remove it yet! Instead, move the entire thing in and almost fully out around 10-12 times. Do this a few more times, ensuring you apply pressure on all sides – left, right, top, and then bottom – to properly relax the muscle and improve skin elasticity. 

Cleaning your anal toys will not only keep you safe but also their lifespan. It’s important to wash them with warm water and soap before and after each session. Dry off the toys completely after use so they don’t get infected or degrade over time.


What Are the Best Anal Toys for Beginners?

Anal beads

Satisfyer Silicone Anal Beads 2 Set – Black
Fig. 4. Satisfyer Silicone Anal Beads 2 Set – Black

Anal beads are a sex toy that can be comprised of either consistent-sized or gradually getting bigger balls, with space in between each one. When using them, find out where the beads are right up against each other so you can find out which portions provide pleasurable sensations. Once you get used to ordinary beads, you can then level up to vibrating anal beads for more excitement.

Be careful when inserting and pulling them out. Rough pushing and pulling may increase the likelihood of discomfort or even injury.

Anal dildo

Anal dildos are designed to look like the real thing. They come in various sizes, materials, and girths. Some even have life-like features for an added visual and sensual experience. 

Make sure that you use toy-safe lube when using one for the first time. Experiment by trying different positions that will maximize satisfaction without any pain or discomfort.  

Butt plug

Gx Black Pearl Metal Anal Plug
Fig. 5. Gx Black Pearl Metal Anal Plug

Butt plugs are a great way to spice up your sex life! Whether you’re looking for something small and simple or want the full experience of anal pleasure, there’s an option out there. 

You may start with the one that has a tapered design (which resembles a cone) which makes it easier for gradual insertion. This is recommended for beginners compared to a blunt tip. You can leave the anal plug in while masturbating or during non-penetrative sex with a partner. 

Vibrating Butt Plug

The added vibrations of a vibrating butt plug can send waves throughout your body. When using a vibrator for the first time, remember to do it slowly with ample lubrication. Increase the speed and intensity as you get comfortable. Let it sit inside you and let it do all the work to take you to the most intense orgasm you’ve ever felt.


Additional Tips on Using Your First Anal Dildo

Dillio Anal Dildo for Beginners Purple 4.5 Inch
Fig. 6. Dillio Anal Dildo for Beginners Purple 4.5 Inch

  • Avoid sharing 

To avoid getting diseases, it is important that you do not share toys between partners without thoroughly cleaning the toy. If this isn’t possible, especially when you’re in the middle of an intimate moment, then just use a new condom each time you switch partners. Do the same when switching between anal and vaginal use to avoid infection.

  • Use a beginner-friendly toy

The best anal toys for beginners are those that don’t have necks or narrowing between the handle and the part you play with. Also, don’t leave the toy inside for too long to prevent swelling, or worse, tearing when you take it out.

  • Clean up before you play

You may want to clean up before inserting something into your anus. But if you’re in a rush or don’t have time for cleaning properly then alcohol-free wipes can be used. Go into the bathroom for 30 to 60 minutes before proceeding with anal play. 

  • Avoid double dipping

One of the most important things to keep in mind when you’re having sex is ‘double dipping.’ This means that it’s best not to use one hand for touching either your anus or vagina because they are two very distinct ecosystems. You don’t want bacteria from an infected place to spread to another part of your body. 

  • Use a lubricant

When engaging in any kind of anal play, using lubricant will make things go much smoother. The anus does not produce natural moisture like vaginal fluids so you need to help it out with some extra TLC! Lube helps keep your butt comfortable during toy removal which makes the experience much more enjoyable!


FAQs on Anal Toys


Q: How do I clean my anal toy?

A: Glass, steel, or silicone anal sex toys can be cleaned in a variety of ways. One way is by placing them under warm soapy water and then thoroughly drying the item before storing. You can also put them in the dishwasher for faster cleaning. Glass and stainless steel can be stored in their original packaging when dry. For silicone, you may need to coat them with a special powder specially made for the toy before storing them to prevent it from sticking. All your anal toys should be placed somewhere away from direct light and high humidity.

Q: Which anal toy should I avoid when I’m just starting?

A: The anal hook is one of the most dangerous sex toys because it can cause severe pain and tearing if used incorrectly. This type should only be attempted by experienced users who know what they’re doing.

Q: Anal play can hurt, is this true?

A: The anus is a strong part of the body, but it also contains thousands of nerve endings. Readying yourself for anal play does take time. This is why many people use tapered toys so as not to go full force right off the bat. With the help of lots of lube, your anus will get used to it after some time. Who knows, you might eventually love it!

Q: Which position is best for beginners?

A: Doggy style is the most natural and comfortable position for anal play. This can be enjoyed solo or with a partner, depending on your preference! Suction cup dildos make this easier because they allow you to set how high they are up from the ground. You can also control how deep you want it in with your motion.


Our Product Recommendations


  1. Ms. Triple Cones 3pc Anal Plug Set

Ms. Triple Cones 3pc Anal Plug Set
Fig. 7. Ms. Triple Cones 3pc Anal Plug Set

This set of Triple Cones features 3 dynamic sizes to plug you up! Long-lasting toys designed to stay with you throughout your entire anal play journey – start off small and graduate to the medium and larger-sized butt plugs as your mind and body get used to the new sensation of anal fill. Veterans and experts will appreciate the smaller plug for warming up and the largest plug for giving the satisfying anal stretch they crave!

  1. Colt Silicone Anal Trainer Kit

Colt Silicone Anal Trainer Kit

Fig. 8. Colt Silicone Anal Trainer Kit

The naughty training kit includes 3 graduated sizes of tapered anal plugs created to let you safely and comfortably expand your pleasure horizons. To enjoy everything the exhilarating world of anal play has to offer, training is in order to ensure total safety and satisfaction.

The tapered silicone plugs allow you to gently increase the size of your pleasure as you tease and train. While each increase in your training expands your horizons, use the convenient suction cup base for hands-free stimulation, effortless insertion, and gentle removal.

  1. Avant Pride P5 Silicone Butt Plug Waterproof Fluid 4.8 Inch Blush

Avant Pride P5 Silicone Butt Plug Waterproof Fluid 4.8 Inch Blush
Fig. 9. Avant Pride P5 Silicone Butt Plug Waterproof Fluid 4.8 Inch Blush

Modern, stylish, and beautiful – meet Pride by Avant. These unique artisanal toys are crafted with care and with your pleasure in mind. Our plugs anchor safely outside your body. Our penetrative toys are harness compatible and feature a deep, strong suction cup base. All Pride by Avant dildos are made of body-safe, platinum-cured silicone. They are non-porous, boilable, and easy to clean. 

  1. Silicone Anal Trainer Butt Plug for Beginners Kit Black 3 Sizes

Silicone Anal Trainer Butt Plug for Beginners Kit Black 3 Sizes
Fig. 10. Silicone Anal Trainer Butt Plug for Beginners Kit Black 3 Sizes

Remarkable thrills await with this product, designed to knock-knock-knock at your back door. The peak of sensual anal pleasure is all yours. Ergonomically designed to fit both your hand and your body, you`ll find pleasure and ease are all yours. Enjoy the ultimate in sensual satisfaction. For the ultimate satisfaction, this kit comes with multiple toys to choose from.

  1. Booty Call Booty Trainer Kit Silicone Butt Plugs Purple 3 Assorted Sizes

Booty Call Booty Trainer Kit Silicone Butt Plugs Purple 3 Assorted Sizes
Fig. 11. Booty Call Booty Trainer Kit Silicone Butt Plugs Purple 3 Assorted Sizes

Simple to use, this product is perfect for beginners. Get ready to enjoy the peak in sensual pleasure. For the ultimate satisfaction, this kit comes with multiple toys to choose from. Go ahead and choose the experience you crave. Remarkable thrills await with this product, designed to knock-knock-knock at your back door. The peak of sensual anal pleasure is all yours.


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